友達以上, 恋人未满 のSex Affair Relationship

This topic sound interesting to me and i had come across in this situation ! Don't you agree this situation always happen around us ?? Or may be you has been thru this situation before??

Some of you might not understand what mean by 友達以上, 恋人未满 .

友達以上, 恋人未满 is origin from Japan , it's mean the relationship is more than a friend but yet not lovers relationship

Another word can be use with same meaning is  暧昧 = Ambiguous.

We just human being ~ we control by feeling, and this caused  友達以上, 恋人未满 appear.

 If 友達以上, 恋人未满 relationship is having date as couple for movie or dinner , it's common.
But what if it's happen turn into Sex Affair Relation ?? Does it still consider as 友達以上, 恋人未满 relationship??

For my points of view , having 友達以上, 恋人未满 のSex Affair Relation is totally different from Bed Partner.


Bed Partner can be any stranger that you just meet from club ? from some party?
But 友達以上, 恋人未满 のSex Affair Relation is you knowing him ( her ) was quite some while, he(she ) might be your good friends or closed friends.

I've post a Question on all my Facebook Friend's Wall :
Topic : 友达以上， 恋人未满のSex Affair Relationship
For Male:
1. How does this often happen to you ??
2. How often both of you acting like a couple ?
3. Are you a good sex partner to her ( explain the reason )
4. What she did is the most irritated you after sexual intercourse ??

and  
For Female :
1. Have this ever happen to u ??
2. Are Both of you act like a couple while dating ?
3. Is him a good sex partner to you ?( explain why he is not good sex partner ) 
4. What you hate the most after having sexual intercourse with him ??

Unfortunately, the replied is just a few. May be Malaysians / Singaporean ( who in my friend list ) is not really that open minded ? Perhaps they are just shy to reply ? Or may be their can't take ( disagree / not accepted ) this type of relationship?


Thanks to those who replied it with your precious time.


The answer shows is Girls can accept this type relationship much more than Guys. 30% from the answer is falling into 友达以上， 恋人未满 のSex Affair Relationship. Sadly only 10% of guys will act like couple while date with ladies. Come On Guys, although just friends, please show your do concern your date , be gentlemen all the time while during date .

Seriously , I do love this type of relationship, it's between black and white , no burden , no commitment .

Honestly , i been thru this relationship once while i still working in Penang , and Karl was great, sunshine guy.  Karl were such an angel come into my life after i break off with my boyfriend. He surely by my side whenever i need help. Movie / Dinner / Hugs / Kisses ?? Yeah , he gave me a beautiful Penang memories.
Sometimes, he came over my condo and we watching movie together while i lay on him, a smoothies given from him surprising me like a couple during movie time or cooking time. Although we just friend and we did not wanted to had more than it. We enjoyed all the time being together until i met my ex jerk husband.

Seriously , i don't mind to go wild with him if we could make it happen ( there lots of chance we can making out ) , but we can't , due he is somebody tied up with his religions . I miss his eye and his hugs that comfort me while i lonely during at night ( Overnight at my place,Squeezing on same bed ) .  We did whatever couple did, expect rolling on bed.

Thank you Karl wish you all the best in Australia . Thanks you for being part of my greatest memory in my life.

Anime /最爱の 动漫 & Comics /最爱の 漫画

What is your favorite anime / comics ?? I do believe all of us was grow up with anime / comics !!

I love Anime & Comics, since i was primary school .
Do you still remember the title of first anime / comics that you watched / read ??


Yeah~ i still remember mine ~ I start with Dragon Ballz 七龙珠 while i only 9 years old, then continue  City-Hunter 城市猎人 , Slam Dunk 灌篮高手, Weekly Comics漫周 , Ranma 乱马1/2，神行太保BOYZ, F.Combo爱兜乱家庭 , 地狱教师 , 幽游白书 , 名侦探柯南 , 福星小子 , Initital D 头文字 D , Master Q 老夫子, Doraemon 小叮当 ,  Angel Heart 天使心 , Dan Detective侦探学院, GTO 麻辣教师, 犬夜叉 , 将太的寿司,中华小厨师,天才小钓手,棋魂, 足球小将（好像全都是男生的漫画!!）


My Top Favorite Comics / Anime ( Randomly ) 我の最爱（排名不分前后）
City-Hunter 城市猎人, Angel Heart 天使心, F.Combo爱兜乱家庭 ( 非常家庭 )  - 北条司
Slam Dunk 灌篮高手 - 井上雄彥
神行太保BOYZ ( BOY 圣子到 ) - 梅泽春人 
Initital D 头文字 D - 重野秀一（しげの秀一）* I Still waiting for Anime Stage 5 and Comics Episode 43 *
GTO 麻辣教师 -  藤泽亨
Ranma 乱马1/2, 福星小子, 犬夜叉 - 高桥留美子
幽游白书 - 富坚义博
棋魂 -  小畑健
通灵王( Shaman King ) - 武井宏之


I do believe keep going with comics / anime will keep our heart forever young XD

* PS PS ~ i very super imba bhb ~ caused i love POKEMON as well XD


Let's start remain our heart forever young from today onwards !!

Sex or Not to Sex ??!!

Sex topics always disclosed from public~

This topic is not to encourage youngster to have sexual intercourse during their school age time or adults to having an affair relationship.

Well, nowadays having sexual intercourse during school age among youngster group isn't new story. We have to admit the world is changing ( Not worries, i'm ain't old sluts ).
Sexual needs is natural desire from our body since the world is created  , don't be shame to admit on it.
I'm not offending any body here. Don't you admit this topics is hot & attractive too??
From some research, having a healthy good sexual intercourse regularly, it's help to build up personal confidence and it's burn loads of calories .
So. why should we do feel shame for having sexual intercourse with someone ?? It's just natural needs.
Come on, sexual intercourse is the most wonderful exercise if both parties are satisfied together from their soul to body.

For MAN, please do remember , having sweet talk , kissing & hugging from foreplay till after play is important , it's better than you turn over and sleep as pig after sexual intercourse. ( I HATE THIS TYPE OF GUYS THE MOST )  Keep this in mind.

It's ain't easy to had a great sexual intercourse experience in lifetime.

Well, i don't give a fuck  with " you cant have it with your boyfriend /girlfriend cause both of you still student ", if their able take good protection and understand their responsibilities , why not ??
Adult make mistake too, we are not perfect human being, think twice before you saying this sentence to youngster.

Well, i hate having sexual intercourse with condoms and i do believe most of the people was hate it too although it's giving protection against pregnancy and etc.

I'm not encourage sexual intercourse without protection. But i do trust there is another way of it.

For ladies , do not ever think that taking protection is only from man side, our gals must protect our self as well, take pills or ask your partner use condoms , if really without both, please do take morning after pill within 48hrs after sexual intercourse. ( but avoid take morning after pill often, it's bad for health )

As for man, taking protections is man's responsibility for those who ask their ladies take protection is a big lousy jerk , if you can't do it, don't having intercourse with your lady.


Sex before marriage or after marriage has no different , the most important is SAFETY COME FIRST.
And never use sexual intercourse as an excuse to threatening your partner in a relationship, it's only showing you were a dumb asshole if you did it.And never blame him/her after sexual intercourse , cause no one can force you to have it. Your body reaction show honestly that you need it.

Where is the best place of it ?? It's very dependence , hardly to answer .

* Be Responsible , Practice with SAFE SEX !!*
*  Enjoy Your Sex Life *

Tattoo's Fever / 纹身之光 /刺青の発熱

What do you think of tattoo and what it means to you?

A. Does it means a person must be a gangster or bad guys ( girls )if their put it on their body ?

B. Does it means just a trend or fashion whiles you putting it in on your body ( influenced by friends / idols ) ?

C. Just to show off or proof that you're cool / hero??

For those sluts who pick up with A. Alright, for whoever agree with this , you are just a slut and please move your ass back to slut's community, caused your mind is just a fucking old  mindset and totally disgraceful.

For those who pick up with B or C, I feel sad with it. Please think twice before you going to put a tattoo on your body or else you might be regret in future. ( Not Offending anybody, sorry to say this, but this is totally WRONG decision if you still decide to put on a tattoo with this mindset.)

Tattoo is not for you to show off and it’s should not declare as trends / fashion trademark.

I never think / treat / declare tattoo as cool / trends / fashions.

Do you know how much of efforts for an artist to tattoo-ing on your body? From the based design until the art is completely done ? Do you know how much time spending for artists to prepare with hair tinny needle ? How much patient given by artist to focus while he/she is tattoo-ing for you??

For me, tattoo is a graceful art and I appreciate with this art.

Tattoo is an awesome artwork with loads of efforts and hard work from artist; we should appreciate this greatest hard work and effort with 100% from our heart and soul.

Tattoos come with its own specific meaning / story line which it's can recall your memories and it's represent personal impression.

And please keep this in mind, GOOD TATTOO AIN’T CHEAP, CHEAP TATTOO AIN’T GOOD, hygiene and safety is first priority in consideration while you plan to put a tattoo on your body. Also don’t ever ask a dumb question with does tattoo hurts? Come on, the pain is bearable, NO PAIN NO GAIN. 

I love my tattoos; all my tattoos are with its special meanings. And it's gave me a remembrance memories.

I would like to take this opportunity to special thanks and salute to my tattoo artist Johnny, Spec Ung for sharing their tattoo knowledge and Ronnie, Frankie & Cherry for teaching me with body piercing knowledge. Especially Johnny, my greatest master of tattoo,who tattooed for me with meaningful designs and taught me with knowledge of life, drawing, sharing his experience and concern me as his own daughter while we work together at tattoo shop during few years back in Penang Island.

I Love your guys. Thanks for all the concerns and care been given while I’m live alone in Penang Island. It’s a great and happy remembrance memory forever in my life. 

Tips to take care of new done tattoo :

Avoid from suntan or exposure under direct sunlight during healing period.

Avoid swimming at swimming pool or seaside during healing period.

Please DO NOT SCRATCH your tattoo during healing period with no matter how extremely itchy.

Apply Skin Repair Lotion during healing period ( It’s help while you felt itchy )

P/S : The Picture of Tattoo shows here is not my tattoo . Only who in my Face book’s friend list will be able to view my tattoo in my album. Sorry for the inconvenience.  

Salute to My Fav. Groups : Beyond , X-Japan , Linkin Park

I'm Beyond Fans since young , yeah was limited into chinese song ~

i was so touch with X-Japan while my net -friends playing their song~ it's really touch ~
i addicted to Linkin Park when i turns19s
their songs might sound noisy others
but their songs cure my injured heart
their songs calm my mind
their songs represent my anger
their song ease of my pain
their song accompanied most of my saddest dark time ~
Thank you Beyond, X-Japan and Linkin Park

SALUTE TO

                                                                BEYOND

                                                                X-JAPAN

                                                             LINKIN PARK

Support "PDA" / Public Display of Affection!!

If you spotted me was hugged,holding each other or may be kissing with somebody at public, don't be shock or curious ~ The truth is he isn't my man~but both of us are just best friend , he just showing his pampering XD

And please do appreciate if there's a guy showing his pampering to you during date XD
Honestly I LOVE n Support "PDA" / Public Display of Affection ~
We don't live backwards stone age but we go forward.
Is there wrong with PDA?
Nope,I don't see any wrong with it ♥

By the way, I'm Enjoying It

I Hate old stone age sluts

Address someone as baby / darling / honey / sweetheart / ​babe / sweetie / dear / baobei mean something on with them ??
Don't be so fucking stuck your mind set in stone age!!
Even i text a guy or addressing a guy as dear / baby / darling doesn't mean that he is my stead / some one or ima having affair with him.
I called / text my siblings n friends ( Gals n Guys ) as baby/darling/honey/sweetheart/​babe/sweetie/dear/baobei since couple years ago ~
Its just to address the person politely and with closeness only.